my 16 yo son was heading for baptism even going over questions i could see he was only doing it for us (i mean mom) and a girl that liked him and was getting dunked at the dc . i was actually scared it would happen so i told him to wait until the c assembly where it would be more intimate. then i told him he should make sure that is what he wanted and to do it for himself. my wife who is far more dedicated a jw than me agreed with me which diffused the situation. one of the elders going over the questins asked him why he stopped with the questions but my son is quiet and didnt give him the answer he wanted so he asked me and i told them he wasnt ready and not to pressure him which worked. less than a year later my boy is getting stares from jws every meeting as he has let his hair grow out some (not shoulder length it just covers his ears and forehead) he has recieved negative comments for this and one of his friends is told by his mother not to talk to him because of his new look , this woman has no class she married 2 "worldy" men and lives off of state welfare and she judged my boy for having a different hair style. i know this post is kind of off subject but i plan on saving the young ones in the hall starting with my own.
Evidently Apostate
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Youths and Young Adults Missing in my Congregation
by ruruj inthere were a handful of youths in my congregation.
all were vibrant and zealous members.
some conducted bible studies, some were dedicated and quite enthusiastic in the "truth".. .
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so, personally, what brand of "wodka" do you think is best..
by elderelite ini have always liked gray goose but i am working on some "belvedere" that is nice.. anyone got a favorite vodka?.
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Evidently Apostate
for me it depends, for a mixer ketel one is good or stoli . straight sippin belvedere chilled does it
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Did you ever know any JW's/Pioneers who frequented popular nightspots and got drunk?
by James_Slash init used to make me sick at these hypocrites.. they would be at the meeting the next day or out in field service, obviously still intoxicated from the night before but putting a show on before the congregation.
i knew a couple of girls who would be regulary doing this over a weekend yet they would be pioneers all week, answering up at the meetings yet would be heading into popular nightspots and coming home at 4am drunk.
their dad was an elder (surprise, surprise).. i remember telling an elder about this once.
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yep, my wife and i would frequent clubs with our friends one was an elder a couple were pioneers. even went to cancun with another couple elder/pioneer. we stayed on the resort drinking at the pool bar until evening, but the resort bar tab was 1600.00 for a week. so much hypocracy i gave up caring, they just worried about getting caught.
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no more lurking...hello eveyone
by Evidently Apostate inabout a year ago i went through a mild meltdown.
it hit me fast i had panic attacks and became angry with all the control in my life.
(being a jw) i had just found out i was being screwed on a real estate development project by another self righteous jw i have known for a long time but this was a big loss (about 4 months pay plus expenses).
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zid, it gets better the witness who gave it to me ended up pocketing six figures from this failing deal. he offered me a couple acres of land worth a few thousand dollars. what a guy
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How Did You Finally "Get Out Of Her" (JWs)??
by minimus inwhat situation(s) got you out of the organization, either mentally or physically or both?
what was your "last straw"?.
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did you have clicks in your hall, we had the too good to invite you over for coffee one. the we drink and hit on each others wives one. the im telling the elders your chewing gum one. the im too sexy for this suit/dress one. i was a part of the if i have to hear this talk again im blowing my brains out click. i hated the bs but if you were a new study we will all love bomb the shit out of you and pretend we all get along. it became obvious that love wasnt there
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no more lurking...hello eveyone
by Evidently Apostate inabout a year ago i went through a mild meltdown.
it hit me fast i had panic attacks and became angry with all the control in my life.
(being a jw) i had just found out i was being screwed on a real estate development project by another self righteous jw i have known for a long time but this was a big loss (about 4 months pay plus expenses).
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thanks all, thelast year has been all too surreal i feel like neo after he took the pill i end up analizing everyone funny how i used to do that to "wordly" people, now i end up looking at all jw's and know i cant let on anything even family.
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no more lurking...hello eveyone
by Evidently Apostate inabout a year ago i went through a mild meltdown.
it hit me fast i had panic attacks and became angry with all the control in my life.
(being a jw) i had just found out i was being screwed on a real estate development project by another self righteous jw i have known for a long time but this was a big loss (about 4 months pay plus expenses).
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about a year ago i went through a mild meltdown. it hit me fast i had panic attacks and became angry with all the control in my life.(being a jw) i had just found out i was being screwed on a real estate development project by another self righteous jw i have known for a long time but this was a big loss (about 4 months pay plus expenses). i have lost more money employing and working with my brothers than non jws and had even stopped hiring jws. anyway i dared to look at apostate material and after a wikapedia lookup went on to specific jw info sites and started my search and i was truly blindsided. i have always had a problem with shunning, the blood doctrine, even the paradise and after reading c of c i realized it was just a man behind the curtain there is no great and powerful oz. i have missed a lot of the meetings and told my wife i will never knock on doors again. i dont bring up how i feel much and never bash the org we have 20 years together and i will try to work on her own doubts slowly. it sucks i want to expose the society to her but she is not there yet. i have been lurking here for awhile and truly feel some of the same anger and pain that is honestly written here i am already being shunned by some of my conditional friends. anyway i feel this site is far from a bunch of angry foaming at the mouth apostates and wanted to introduce myself.
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Do you smoke anything?
by asilentone ini was very disappointed in one of my friends near here.
he is df'd.
he started smoking cigs.
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no cigs but i like a blunt once and awhile, makes yardwork tolerable.
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Whats the weirdest thing a JW ever said to you?
by chukky 594 ini remember a 'sister' coming up to me and telling me off for being on the atkins diet, as it was satanic and designed by satan.. chukky.
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My elder father in law had a heart attack 2 yrs ago. He dropped on a busy street right in front of me. we were right next to a resteraunt that had a cop parked in front, within 60 seconds we were giving cpr to him and about 3 minutes later EMTs were hitting him with a defibulator. ( station was right around the corner)He turned blue but they brought him back. Doctors say he had 3 blocked arteries and was very lucky. Anyway he retells the story to everyone (tries to work it into a witness) about the massive attack and how god saved him it was divine intervention. He Forgot the immediate specialized help that didnt give up on him, Forgot that the reason for his heartattack was his overeating, alchoholic behavior for years along with a refusal to see his doctor for 5 years because he knew he was killing himself slowly. He actually rambled his bullshit story and subsiquent holy salvation to a sister at the assembly who just finished telling us about her mother losing her battle with diabetes. guess god didnt love her mom as much as my alcoholic dellusional father in law. what an ass
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How do you handle the wickedness going on today?
by stillin9 inwe know in the jw realm, satan is believed to be the main cause of all the wickedness going on in our world today.
after taking a quick look at news headlines, and seeing the crap going on around us, i personally don't find that so hard to believe.
but i wanted to see how you guys handle the tragedies and wickedness going on around us?
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sad to say but death sells and the media uses it. this century is different, death, tyranny, natural disasters have always been. its just now we have news access 24/7. no one in the USA 200 years ago would have known about an earthquake in Argentina or a flood in Pakistan. As far as a wicked demonic world i see that in a few sickos, murderers, pedophiles that do not belong in this world IMO. I try to take one day at a time and enjoy what i have and just realize i can only trust a couple people.